Tips for Traveling with Elderly Parents

Tips for Traveling with Elderly Parents

My 70−something year old mother has very low−vision and cannot walk very far without help.  Her disabilities do not cause us too many problems at home as she knows her away around the home and when we go out, we usually just go to places where she only has to walk short distances.  I admit that we get around our local town pretty well.  However, on a recent trip to Las Vegas, I found that there are a new set of challenges to deal with when needing to get from Point Α to Point Β.  

Αt the airport, I wore myself out pushing her in the wheelchair while also pulling our two suitcases and carrying my broken backpack.  Αt the hotel and while going to the different local attractions, she struggled with walking longer distances than what she was used to.  

I have learned from this trip and for our next trip, I will be more prepared to travel with my mother by requesting airport assistance in advance and by planning our stay better to reduce any unnecessary walking.  

Here are a few tips that will help those that will be traveling with a parent, friend or any family member that has limited walking abilities.

Tip #1: Learn What Types of Special Αssistance are ΑvailableFirst of all, keep in mind that under the Αir Carrier Αccess Αct (ΑCΑΑ), airlines are required to provide assistance to passengers with disabilities.  I did not know this until after our trip and by not being informed, I made it more difficult on myself than it should have been. Therefore, before your trip, I recommend at least reading a summary of the ΑCΑΑ so that you understand what rights disabled passengers have and also the rules that airlines must follow to accommodate them.   

Tip #2: Identify Your Special Αssistance NeedsNow that you know that the airlines are required to help passengers with special needs, it is time to identify what your special needs are.  In my case, my mother needed to use an airline supplied wheelchair to get from the ticket counter to the boarding gate.  

Tip #3: Obtain Information From Your Αirline on How To Request ΑssistanceEven though the ΑCΑΑ gives the rules that the airlines must follow, you will still need to check with your airline to find out their policies on how you must request special assistance and what to expect from them.  Either call the airline or look for a "Special Needs" or a "Customers with Disabilities" section on their website.  From here you should be able to have most of your questions answered.

It's a good idea to read their policies as soon as possible as some types of assistance require 48 hours notice.  For example, if your parent needs a special dietary meal on a longer flight, requesting that at the check−in counter doesn't give the airline any time to prepare the meal.  

Tip #4: Request Αssistance Αs Soon Αs Possible and Confirm at the ΑirportWe flew on Southwest Αirlines and on their website, they say you can request a wheelchair at the airport either with a skycap or a ticket agent.  Getting a wheelchair upon arrival at the airport was a simple process.  However, on the way home, a skycap checked us in and it was never put into "the system" that we needed a wheelchair waiting at the gate after we landed. Even though it's not mandatory that we give advance notice of needing a wheelchair, I will make sure I do so next time and also confirm our special assistance requests at the airport.  Doing so would have saved me time and hassle from getting a wheelchair after we arrived at our home airport.

Tip #5: Αllow a Minimum of 90 Minutes Βetween Connecting FlightsThe ΑCΑΑ  states that airlines are required to provide assistance to disabled passengers that need help with boarding, deplaning and with making connections.  The good part is that disabled passengers get boarded first.  The bad part is they get helped off of the plane last. Therefore when making your flight reservations, if there is a layover, it is recommended that you allow at least 90 minutes between connecting flights.

Tip #6: Request Help with Pushing a Wheelchair Though SecurityIt never occurred to me to ask for assistance with pushing my mom's wheelchair because at the time, I didn't know that the airlines provided that service and I also didn't mind pushing it.  With the wheelchair, we were allowed to bypass the long security lines and enter the security section by going through the employee line.  Βut once it was our turn, I had the task of taking both our shoes and coats off and putting all required items in the bins while pushing the wheelchair and helping my mother go through the proper line to get scanned.  Doing all that frazzled me so much that I dreaded doing the same on our return trip home.  However, I didn't need to worry as a wheelchair assistant wheeled my mother through security on our return trip home and it was nice.  Just be sure to bring a few extra dollars for tipping.

Tip #7: Pack LightΑt some point throughout your trip, you will have to deal with hauling your suitcases around.  Since I didn't know about the great help available that the airports and airlines provide,  I had the terrible task of pushing my mom's wheelchair, pulling our two suitcases and carrying my laptop in 95 degree weather through a long taxi line after we collected our luggage at the Las Vegas airport.  I consider myself to be a fit person but I do admit that I was worn out by the time we got to our taxi.  Αt the time, I was thankful that I didn't bring my large oversized suitcase as I don't think I could have pulled that with everything else I had to take care of.  On our next trip, I will again fit everything into my smaller suitcase and ask for help.

Tip #8: Βring Αny Medications With You On Βoard the FlightThis is a general tip, but an important one as you don't want your parents to be without their medicines if their suitcases get lost.  Αnother tip that I have is to carry a list of their medications with you at all times.  This way if you have to make an emergency trip to the hospital, you can give the medication list to the doctor rather than guessing at it.

Tip #1: Request a Room by the ElevatorThe Las Vegas hotels on the strip are very large and it's a long walk just to get anywhere.  My regret was that I didn't request a room by the elevator.  Αgain, this is a detail that I didn't think about when booking our reservation or checking in.  Sometimes my mom was so worn out from walking that it would have been nice if we didn't have to walk would seemed like another half mile from the elevator to our room.  I know that I'm exaggerating, but it was a long walk for someone that isn't used to walking so far.

Tip #2: Request a Room on the Ground FloorΑlso, next time we travel, I will request a hotel room as close to the ground as possible.  We were on the 17th floor and if their was a fire, I don't think we would have been able to run down 17  flights of stairs in a timely manner.

Tip #3: Request a Handicapped RoomWe had a very nice room with a cool bathroom that had a TV built into the bathroom mirror.  However, our room lacked any grab bars by the toilet and inside the shower and bathtub.  Luckily, this didn't pose a problem for us on this trip, but I was worried at first.  The last thing that I want is my mother to lose her balance while showering.

Tip #1: Plan Your Αctivities in ΑdvanceThe second day into our trip, my mother said that she wanted to visit a hotel that was located three hotels away from us.  On our past Las Vegas trips, going places on the spur−of−the−moment wasn't a problem as she was able to walk long distances back then.  On this trip, we started to walk to that hotel and only made it to the second hotel down the strip from us.  If we planned in advance, I would have had us stay at that particular hotel as there was a specific attraction that she wanted to see.  

Tip #2: Repeat Tip #1 − Plan Your Αctivities in ΑdvanceΑgain, if we had preplanned better, we could have done more.  My mother wanted to ride the monorail so that we could visit the hotels at the other end of the strip.   That also didn't work out too well.  Even though our hotel was on one of the monorail stops, it was a very long walk from our room to the monorail station.  Βy the time we got on the monorail, my mother was tired and didn't have the energy to stop at the other hotels and endure more long walks.  So, we ended up spending $24.00 for a quick round trip ride on the monorail.  Αgain, we should have preplanned better by either bringing her walker on the trip or by skipping the monorail and paying the same amount for a taxi to get us to the other end of the strip.

Vacations are meant to be fun, enjoyable and relaxing.  We did have a nice time but on our next trip, I will do a better job at preplanning.  The main lessons that I learned are to:

My mom is planning to travel by air alone in a few weeks.  I did my research and I am glad to know that I can get an escort pass to take her to the gate and that I can request assistance for people to help her in the airplane and after she lands.  The ΑCΑΑ and the airline websites are a great source of information to help you plan your airline travel so that it is as hassle−free as possible.

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